How to Be a Happier Person
Post date: March 20, 2017
Do you often forget that simple things, such as a personal conversation with your friends or ability to share your feelings, can make your life happy? If you do, consider our tips to improve communication skills and fill your life with a new meaning.
Avoid texting, but call people
Today texting is the most common communication form. However, we tend to forget that the actual purpose of a phone is to call a person and speak to him/her. If you communicate through texting, it’s much easier to misunderstand something or lose the emotional meaning of your message. However, when you speak, you can tell how your interlocutor is feeling at the moment. You don’t lose implications and emotions. Moreover, it even takes less time to say something rather than write it.
Openly vent your emotions
Is this something new to do for you? Do you tend to hide your feelings? Keep in mind that this tendency creates serious problems in your life. It may cause stress and make you unhappy. Moreover, it damages your health, both physically and psychologically. So, it’s better to share your emotions in a constructive way.
Create your own memories and avoid comparisons
Do you often scroll your news feed and read posts of others doing something interesting? Do you tend to think, “Why are they doing this and I’m not?” Stop thinking about it. Go and get these experiences yourself. Stop comparing yourself with others and create your own memories. Do what you’ve always wanted to do. Travel, read the books you like, go to the places you enjoy, talk to the people you love.
Retain open forms of communication
Stop guessing and assuming what other people like or think from something you’ve heard or seen (or from something you haven’t heard or seen). If you stick to the open forms of communication, you can simply ask people what they think, thus avoiding possible misunderstanding and making you relationship healthier.
If something goes wrong with someone you love and you don’t understand why, don’t panic. Just be there. Don’t say or ask anything. Just give them a hug and let them know that you’re there for them. It’s so simple.
Try something new
Stop hesitating to do something new. Don’t be scared of what others will think or say. If you think that you would enjoy it, just do it. If you succeed, congratulations! If you don’t, know that this is just a new experience that will teach you something and move on.
Actively work on your future
Stop worrying and start acting. Start taking simple steps toward realizing your dream and becoming a happier person. There is no guarantee that you will succeed, but it is for sure that you will learn something new!